Are you watching the Olympics? Have you ever wondered how these young men and women are able to handle stress and pressure - the
whole world is watching them - with such grace and dignity?
Past weekend I taught a private meditation class for a group of 11 women. I always try to customize what and how I teach so that my clients get the most value. So once the usual chatter subsided, I asked the customary questions: what would you like to get out of the class? what are your challenges? why do you want to learn meditation?
The answers didn't really surprise me - after all, these are the same
words I hear over and over again in almost every meditation class: these women wanted to quiet their mind, settle emotional turbulence, and sleep better. Can meditation help that?
If this was the first class I taught, I would have said "yes, absolutely" with full certainty. Now, several years and dozens of meditation classes later, I go with, "that really depends."
Everyone who have tried meditating even once knows that closing the eyes for formal seated
practice reveals uncharted waters of mental space - habitual mental static, thought fragments, memories and images. Beginner meditators often complain of amplified mental turbulence, and even increased levels of tension and pain during meditation... Internal experiences become all the more prominent once we shut the door to outside distractions.
So instead of delving into meditation
theory I taught these women how to relax.
Breath... Relaxed eyes... Body scan...
Slowly, step-by-step, the energy in the room has changed from nervous chatter to inner focus. If you listen really carefully, this shift of energy is palpable - it feels like the time has suddenly stopped... It often happens in the middle of yoga or meditation class when students become inwardly absorbed. Athletes call it "the zone."
The "zone" secret, of
course, is no secret at all - strength is in the training. Athletes recognize that their performance depends as much, if not more, on their mental composure and ability to handle stress, as it does on their physical capacity. They spend time honing their mental faculty so that they don't buckle under pressure. Most of us don't aspire to stand on Olympic podium, but, like my good friend Keri says, "we all are life - long athletes in pursuit of personal excellence." Why not take a page from our
favorite sportsman's' book, and train like they do?
Meditation is gaining a momentum and society - wide popularity. Many of us, seduced by instant gratifications of modern life's many comforts, expect meditation to be an immediate solution to many of our stress-related ailments.
Meditation is not a band-aid or Starbucks drive through...
It is a practice; a practice that takes time, energy and commitment. It is a practice that can be bone-rattlignly difficult and enormously gratifying. It is a practice aimed at the place of stillness that exists underneath the cacophony of mental noise. Somewhere along the way stress simply falls away...
Many Satori students have talked about home practice challenges, and the need for
a regular weekly meditation class to support (not replace!) their personal practice. I have added a Sunday GROUP MEDITATION CLASS aimed to do just that. This is a month-long pilot session to determine if there's enough interest for weekly meditation classes to continue. Please join group meditation class on Sundays starting March 2nd to support your practice and our growing meditation community.
Group Meditation Classes
Sundays March 2nd, 9th, 23rd & 30th; 5:00 PM - 5:30 PM
Cost 39$ + GST for 4 class session
On-line class registration
If
the muscle hurts after using it, it's one that should have trained beforehand. Are you stuck in the stinking thinking? Train your mental muscle, so you can stand strong in your center and BE yourself no matter what life throws at you. Day in, and day out.